DeShae was born in Abilene and raised in Deleon, Texas. She has been a Registered Dental Hygienist since 1989 and began working with Dr. Robbins in dental cosmetics since 1996. DeShae received her Master of Science Degree in Dental Hygiene from the UT Health Science Center in San Antonio. She is married to Greg Ashley, who owns Ashley’s Small Engine in Bulverde. They have a daughter Erin, who plays basketball for Smithson Valley High School and a son, Garrett who currently attends UTSA and will pursue a degree in vocational ministry. DeShae has accompanied Dr. Robbins on the Haiti mission trip for the last two years and enjoys spending time with her family, traveling and working with her church.